When you’re blindsided in a marriage it’s a natural reaction to want to take everything from your spouse so they can hurt as much as you do. But
5 Things Not to Do as a Co-Parent
Here is a countdown of the top 5 things not to do if you have kids and want a good relationship with your ex. 5. Talk bad about your ex
It’s Okay to Quit Your Marriage
When I was a kid whenever someone broke up with their boyfriend or girlfriend they would say, “I quit him!” or “I quit her!” I always thought that was
How to Deal with High Conflict People (HCP) Who Make Your Life Hell
This post is based on the work of Bill Eddy from the High Conflict Institute. I had the distinct pleasure of being a student in his class at
Effects of Separation and Divorce on Children
This is intended to serve as a reference for you to consult to as you consider how your separation and divorce will affect your kids. Ages 0-18
Families Need Peace
It’s a paradigm shift to think that divorce can bring peace to a family, but it truly can. The one caveat is that it depends on how you
Cooling Off Period
In California there is a 6 month cooling off period when you file for divorce. What does that mean? It means that once your papers are filed